urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:lovesresolve Love's Resolve Musings on Love, Sex and Other Acts of God Love's Resolve 2007-07-19T07:32:44Z urn:lj:livejournal.com:atom1:lovesresolve:2002 Relationship Musings 2007-07-19T07:32:44Z 2007-07-19T07:32:44Z Ideally, the significant other will encourage you to become a better person for your sake and theirs. They will bring out your best qualities and will enjoy seeing them flourish.<br /><br />Perhaps I'm an idealist after all.